Pity the man who inherits a million and isn’t a millionaire.Here’s what would be pitiful,if your income grew and you didn’t.
Jim Rohn
You can achieve success in whatever you want by following these 5 Steps. I highly recommend doing a pen and paper exercise here-
1. Know what you don’t want.
Everyone does this step really well. We all look at what life is offering us and we know what we don’t want. This is really easy and comes naturally to us. However, its also very easy to get stuck in this step and not move forward.
2. Know what you do want.
80% of people will never make it to this step. If you are among the 20% who are doing this step then you are already experiencing success in one form or another. Look at what you have listed in step one and write down the opposite of it. eg. I don’t want to be overweight. I want to be slim, trim and fit.
Another factor to keep in mind is to be really specific. I want to lose X lbs, wear size X clothes, have an X ” waistline etc.
3. Remove blocks to success.
This step is really the KEY. Most people end up skipping to step 4 before they have moved through this step. The Blocks to Success are our obvious and hidden beliefs about our issue. I may want to lose 50 lbs on the face of it, but I can’t even imagine myself having lost it. This would be like a saboteur stopping you from reaching your goal. There are some really awesome techniques which allow you to identify these beliefs and release them. I will be sharing some in the days to come.
4. Focus on what you want.
In this step you can use a variety of tools like visualisation, vision boards, affirmations, writing a journal etc.
5. Allow it in.
There is nothing much to do here. You have done all the work in the previous 4 steps. Now its time to relax and let go. One important factor here is not to have an attachment to the result. Do your best but be ok even if you may never achieve it. Plant a seed water it everyday and wait for it to grow and blossom.
I have found that moving through these steps systematically always gets me what I want. And remember Manifestation follows Divine Timing and NOT Human Timing.